ACKNOWLEDGMENTS

      This book would have been nothing more than the rantings of an annoyed new mom were it not for a long list of people far smarter than I, who shared their considerable expertise, bold opinions, and valuable time. For this, I offer my extreme gratitude to Polly Palumbo, Rebecca Goldin, Joan Wolf, Stephanie Knaak, Ellie Lee, Alex Tabbarok, Carden Johnston, Karen Kleiman, Maureen Rand Oakley, Dr. Barry Dworkin, Chris Bobel, Janet Golden, Dr. Michael Moritz, Linda Blum, Phyllis Rippeyoung, Mary Noonan, Tina Moffat, Julie Artis, Orit Avishai, Siobhan Reilly, and Eirik Evenhouse.

      Much appreciation also goes to Katherine Abend, Christine Pietrosh, Nicolle Fefferman, Danny Bush, Jennifer Golub-Marcus, and Juli Schneiderman, who all read, brainstormed, and/or listened to me obsess about this project; my Pasadena mommy friends for accepting me into their fold despite my differing (and often unsolicited) opinions; my editor, Naomi Schneider, for her tireless tweaking and shaping of what was originally a rambling, somewhat schizophrenic manuscript; Kate Warne, Madeleine Adams, and everyone at UC Press for bringing this book from gestation to birth; my unbelievable agent at Writers House, Rebecca Sherman, and her assistant Ty King; Brooke Linville for her support, Web prowess, and take-no-prisoners attitude; the administrative team of Bottle Babies for being my sisters in arms in a ridiculous and unnecessary war; my parents, Steve and Diana Cobb, for their love and babysitting hours (and my dad for his professional insight and access to medical journals); the whole Barston and Cobb clans for putting up with my insanity; the warm and loving crew of babysitters who’ve hung out with my kids so that I could write—Candace Rodrigues, Erika Kennington, Katy Williams, and Keewa Nurullah; Virginia Lam for her incomparable PR expertise; and the Strong Momma crew for reminding me that chat rooms—despite all their faults—can be supportive, positive places.

      To the women of the Fearless Formula Feeder community who have shared their pain, humor, and anger with me, whose stories pepper these chapters and inspired so much of the prose, I am honored to be your “voice” and I hope I don’t disappoint you too much.

      Thank you, also, to the positive, open-minded lactivists I’ve met in the past two years—women like Suchada Eickemeyer of MamaEve.com, Devan McGuinness-Snider of AccustomedChaos.com, and Rina Groeneveld—who have helped me see an entirely new side of the story, and who I hope can read this story in the spirit it was intended.

      Last, thank you just isn’t adequate for my husband, Steven. Writing this book took a tremendous toll on our family, and I’ve asked way too much of you during these past three years. I hope I can someday return the favor, but until then I hope my undying gratitude and love will suffice.