F*ck Feelings: Less Obsessing, More Living. Sarah Bennett
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For the previous generation, Claire and Dr. Jacob Bleiberg, and Beatrice and Jacob Bennett. Tough lives couldn’t stop them from sticking to their values and working hard so that our lives could be so much easier.
And for friend, mentor, and legendary mensch Dr. Ted Nadelson, who taught us that the best way to help people accept what’s tough about life is to make them laugh.
There’s no “should” or “should not” when it comes to having feelings. They’re part of who we are and their origins are beyond our control. When we can believe that, we may find it easier to make constructive choices about what to do with those feelings.
—Fred Rogers, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember
Contents
Introduction: What’s Your Goal?
Chapter One Fuck Self-Improvement
Taking Back the Reins of Your Life (After a Stampede)
Getting to the Root of Your Problem . . . and Tearing It Out
Becoming a More Positive Person
Unleashing the Power of Persuasion
Overcoming the Stigma of Disability
Defending Your Right to Live in Safety
Getting Closure After Childhood Abuse
Getting Justice and/or Closure
Protecting Victims of Injustice