Harmonizing the Natal Chart. Илана Либ
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is harmonized through creative pursuits, self-love, working on one's appearance and image, studying the arts, observing nature, and developing a sense of taste, as well as external and internal harmony.
The best day to begin harmonization is Friday (Venus’ day). On this day, one should chant or sing the Venus mantra 108 times (OM SHUKRAYA NAMAHA).
It is recommended to give flowers to women, grow plants with large blossoms, and use stones such as white coral, diamond, and rock crystal (which can be placed in the home). Wearing a ring with a gemstone should be done only after consulting a specialist who has studied your natal chart.
It is beneficial to decorate one’s home and workplace with flowers and fruits, show reverence to Lakshmi, Saraswati, and Parvati (by placing statues or hanging pictures), cultivate selfless love, treat people to sweets, enjoy delicious food without guilt, and help homeless people and animals.
Such a person is more focused on themselves than on their partner and may be assertive in certain situations. It is important to communicate calmly and strive to understand what the partner wants. There may be frustration when the partner does not act as expected.
The fiery reactions of Aries should not be suppressed, but Venus should be worked on through self-development, self-discovery, sports, dance, and sex—engaging in activities that bring pleasure. Having a hobby (such as embroidery, knitting, or assembling puzzles) is also beneficial.
Additionally, one must learn to ask the partner for help rather than doing everything alone, assuming that it will be quicker and better that way.
A woman with Venus in Aries may lack a sense of feminine self-sufficiency. She might not feel filled with feminine energy, even though outwardly she tries to appear bright, well-groomed, and feminine. She desires to fulfill her wishes quickly, but the partner may not always share this pace or may need more time.
Such individuals need to learn to consider their partner, develop softness, reduce assertiveness, become more accommodating and diplomatic, and learn to negotiate, understand, and accept. They should calmly discuss problems. Essentially, they must adopt the best qualities of Libra—the opposite sign of Aries. This is how planets in signs are harmonized—by integrating the qualities of their opposing sign.
This is a strong, stable position from a material perspective. Such a person has a grounded outlook on everything and prefers relationships to be clear, structured, and stable.
They love material and emotional stability to the extent that they resist change in relationships. However, life is constant movement. For spiritual growth, change is sometimes necessary, including in relationships. In such unions, attachments and dependencies may develop (leading to stagnation and a lack of freedom of choice), which contradicts esoteric laws and the laws of the universe. When this happens, the soul ceases to evolve, and the universe sends lessons. Conflicts, disputes, and deep conversations help a couple progress in their relationship. Venus in Taurus, however, tends to avoid such situations.
The opposite sign of Taurus is Scorpio, which carries the energy of transformation—precisely what is needed to harmonize Venus in Taurus. One must be open to change in relationships, avoid procrastination, and take action when necessary.
Such a person is highly focused on material things and expects grand gifts. They need to shift their priorities from materialism to spirituality, as this is likely what their soul truly requires. It is important to listen to oneself and not choose a partner based on financial considerations.
This placement makes it easy for a person to express their feelings. Venus in Gemini grants lightness but also superficiality in relationships, preventing a deep understanding of love and partnership.
Communication is highly valued in relationships. Such a person engages in frequent interactions with the opposite sex.
It is necessary to develop depth in relationships, understand the partner and their emotions, and reflect on what one truly wants to feel toward the partner. Learning from Sagittarius (the opposite sign of Gemini) is essential for harmonizing Venus—this means embracing qualities such as wisdom, philosophy, and long-term vision. Only soulful mutual understanding can lead to happy relationships. One must see beyond the external and into the partner’s inner world.
A large number of social connections can create difficulties in choosing a partner and building relationships—one person may have one desirable trait, while another possesses a different one, making it hard to commit. Therefore, it is essential to develop deep self-awareness and understanding of what one truly needs. Only from this understanding should choices be made. Learning to prioritize and focus on developing relationships with one person at a time is crucial.
Another approach to selecting a partner is choosing someone whose status aligns with Sagittarius' themes—such as a teacher, mentor, or guru—someone who is respected and whose work is of interest.
Venus in Gemini does not naturally favor large-scale commitments in relationships. However, Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter, which expands everything, including boundaries. Therefore, traveling abroad and studying different cultures can be particularly beneficial.
Venus in Cancer makes a person vulnerable and sensitive. It is necessary to work through feelings of resentment; otherwise, the person will become emotionally closed off, which hinders deep emotional connection—the foundation of relationships. It is important to develop Capricorn qualities, meaning to become less emotionally reactive to circumstances, not take everything too personally, and broaden one's worldview to understand that every offender is given to teach something.
Such individuals seek deep connection and emotional understanding in relationships with their partner. The process of working through their Venus lies in realizing that if their partner cannot provide this sufficiently, they must accept that the other person has the right to be different—perhaps less emotionally expressive—and not take offense when their expectations are not met.
Venus in Cancer does not always favor a person’s appearance, as they may often look too casual, not putting much effort into their external image. It is necessary to always look attractive and remember that a partner is not a parental figure—one must maintain physical appeal. Often, those with Venus in Cancer behave as their parents did.
This person may become stagnant in relationships, unwilling or hesitant to change anything. It is crucial to shift their approach to relationships, change circumstances when necessary, and not be afraid to leave relationships that have outlived themselves due to attachment and a desire for stability.
A person with Venus in Cancer may subconsciously place the responsibility for their emotional state on their partner, expecting the same warmth and emotional giving that they themselves provide. They must learn to take responsibility for their own emotional well-being. To do so, they should study themselves and their partner through Vedic astrology and psychology. It is important to build inner strength without relying on the partner to shape the relationship.
One must develop independence in love, understand what they truly want from relationships, and adopt the qualities of Capricorn (Cancer’s opposite sign), which values clarity and structure. A clear vision of the type of relationship they desire is essential.
If their partner is nervous or prone to arguments, they may feel unloved, as those with Venus in Cancer believe that love manifests only through warmth and emotional depth. They need to work on understanding that their partner expresses themselves differently and accept this.
People with Venus in Cancer seek a sense of security from their partner, similar to what they experienced with their parents (if they had it). However, the feeling of security must be cultivated within themselves through personal development.
Such a person is highly jealous, which damages relationships not only with their partner but also with friends. A woman