Psychological Problems and Their Big Deceptions. David W. Shave
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“right,” then becomes more difficult for me to attain as my unconscious entity increases. Any advice to me to “slow down” is worthless advice. I’ll continue to be obsessed with cleaning my house until I can lower the level of my self-felt unconscious entity. Or, with a primary feeling of an impending disaster, and an increasing level of unconscious entity, I might be increasingly worried and hyper-vigilant about taking risks for fear of encountering possible calamities which could be highly advantageous for me in the particular reality I might currently have. If I were in business, my being this way might make me less likely to have a financial disaster. As my unconscious entity increases further, what might have been an advantage to me in business, could now become a disadvantage when I become afraid to try anything new. With more unconscious entity, my secondary feelings might make me phobic, or perhaps subject to panic attacks, or being excessively worried and hyper-vigilant, or stressed out and always expecting the very worst thing to happen to my business or to me. I might become unable to leave my house for fear of an impending disaster that I might feel, or, with more unconscious entity, might “know” is waiting for me. Your telling me to “stop worrying” is worthless advice. I won’t change until I can lower the level of my self-felt unconscious entity.
Reaching an outstanding level of success, that’s recognized by others, most often does require an uncomfortably increased unconscious entity in its self-felt form, which for some people, whether their field of endeavor is business, politics, law, religion, sports or any other endeavor, can lead to pedophilia. As an example of how an increased level of our self-felt unconscious entity may not create an emotional problem for us, but could benefit us, suppose you uncomfortably feel that your road-work and dieting for an upcoming marathon is “inadequate.” Because you hope to be the winner of the marathon, which you feel will make you feel happier, which we know can only be done by meeting better what might be unmet of your basic emotional need, you won’t want your preparation to be inadequate. That feeling that you experience about your preparation for the marathon being inadequate, could not only be arising from the reality of your preparation actually being inadequate, but it could also be arising from your self-felt unconscious entity in your unconscious providing a primary feeling of being “inadequate” that is focusing on your preparation for the marathon. (That feeling of being inadequate, may make a person feel uncomfortable sexually relating to adult females, and less uncomfortable sexually relating to under age males or females.) This could be a very small added component to your experienced feeling that your preparation is inadequate. If it is a large component, it could be the predominant cause for your uncomfortably feeling your preparation for running the marathon is inadequate. But because this unconscious component isn’t recognized, you’ll attribute the way you are feeling only to that which is arising from your perceived reality in regard to your preparation. What you might tell us in great detail, as to why you feel your preparation for the up-coming marathon is inadequate, and why you secondarily feel you have to urgently do much more in preparation, will be a rationalization. It’s a rationalization because it leaves out what is arising, unrecognized, from your unconscious entity, which could be a predominant component of your feeling your preparation is inadequate. It’s your accompanying unmet basic emotional need that’s focused on the up-coming marathon, and your increased unconscious entity, that together, could be the unrecognized driving force in your preparation for coming in “first” in the marathon.
That part of your feeling your preparation for an upcoming marathon is inadequate that is arising from your increased self-felt unconscious entity, is a primary feeling of that entity. It’s just one of the many ways that your increased self-felt unconscious entity could have shown itself. Your unconscious entity, rather than focusing on your preparation for an upcoming marathon, might have manifested itself with a different primary feeling, with a different focus on anything identified with you, such as your appearance, your work, your health, your secret sexual preferences, your financial worth, your past, your future, or anything else about you. You’d then have a different secondary feeling which would present how the focus of that primary feeling has to be corrected, or avoided. What you would then believe is making you emotionally uncomfortable wouldn’t be so much your upcoming marathon as it would be that something else. It would be something else that you would now feel an urgency to correct, or to avoid, and about which to worry more. If your unconscious entity focused an unwanted feeling more on that something else, and less on your preparation for the marathon, you might not be as successful in the marathon as you would be with more of your self-felt unconscious entity focused on that preparation.
We earlier saw how our secondary feelings often present as reality-oriented explanations for what we must do to rectify the unwanted primary feelings about something associated with us as being in some way “deficient,” “flawed,” or “unwanted” in its present state. If you have a primary feeling from your increased unconscious entity that your preparation for an upcoming marathon is “inadequate”, or “inferior”, or “incomplete”, or “indicative of failure”, then a reality-oriented secondary feeling of yours might be, “I feel I need to spend a lot more time working harder and longer, preparing for the marathon,” which might now have to be accomplished more urgently and with more worrying, in a more stringently determined way, and no other way. That’s what it would take, you might now believe, to correct what you uncomfortably feel isn’t “good enough” about your preparation. Though it might appear that you have consciously determined what you believe, and can present this in a logical and factual way, what really is determining what you believe, is your uncomfortably increased unconscious entity in your unconscious. We know that what it takes for you to become more emotionally comfortable is to lower both the uncomfortable levels of your unconscious entity and your unmet basic emotional need. Although you could meet your basic emotional need and decrease the unwanted feelings from your increased unconscious entity in a lot of other possible ways than winning the marathon, you won’t feel so. Your increased unmet basic emotional need and your increased unconscious entity are being narrowly focused in your reality by your unconscious, as a desire to win the marathon. Your unconscious is determining your primary and secondary feelings, as well as the reality focus of those feelings, and, as such, it is determining your conscious thinking in regard to the marathon. That’s an example of how our unconscious can unrecognizably determine our conscious thinking in regard to anything. It does it by the primary and secondary feelings that arise from an increased unconscious entity and an increased unmet basic emotional need, with an unconsciously determined reality focus for those entities.
If you’re feeling, which is to say “believing,” that your preparation for the marathon is inadequate, and much of that feeling, or “believing,” is arising, unrecognized, from your recently increased self-felt unconscious entity, then you’ll feel, or “believe,” more intensely that way, as your unconscious entity increases further. As a result of a further increase in your unconscious entity, your feeling you need to prepare more could become seen as a more factual, and, as such, a more emphatic, “I do need to prepare more for the marathon.” That increase of your unconscious entity intensifies your belief. What had been a feeling with less unconscious entity now has become an indisputable perceived “fact” of your reality with more unconscious entity. Your intensified belief is based on what you perceive as “factual” of your reality which may not be based at all on true facts of your reality. You might now be more driven to prepare yourself better for the marathon, because not only is your increased unconscious entity intensifying your primary feeling that your preparation is inadequate, but it’s also intensifying your secondary feeling of needing to work harder and longer in your preparation, in a more stringently determined way. That increased unconscious entity is increasing the urgency to do that, as well as increasing your worrying about it. It’s determining what you perceive as “factual” about your reality. With a much lower level of your self-felt unconscious entity, you would feel less inadequate (and less inadequate sexually in relating to an adult female) and that your preparation is less inadequate, and you would feel less urgency in correcting that inadequacy, and what must be done will be less stringently determined. What you would now see as “factual” would be different than what you saw with more unconscious entity. You’d now be less driven to prepare for the marathon with little or no worrying about it. With an increasing level of your unconscious entity, you’d have a higher level of an unmet basic emotional need, and if this is focused on your winning the marathon, winning it would become