The Educator's Guide to LGBT+ Inclusion. Kryss Shane
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to make corrections, and knowing how to speak up in support of LGBT+ safety, security, and inclusion in your school setting.
1 These statistics include information gathered and verified by the consistent results of surveys and questionnaires completed by American LGBT+ youth via studies through the following organizations: The Trevor Project; Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network (GLSEN); Human Rights Campaign (HRC); Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD); the National LGBTQ Task Force; and the American Government’s Youth Risk Behavior Survey.
Preface
This book was not created to push a political agenda, to turn current school systems on their heads, or to undermine learning experiences currently being provided throughout America. Instead, this book aims to enlighten the reader and encourage them to consider the ways that small additions or changes to existing lesson plans and school policies may further benefit their students academically, socially, and emotionally.
Your personal beliefs about the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT+) community are your own. While I cannot guarantee you won’t reconsider them by the time you’ve completed this book, please know that it is not my goal to focus on those beliefs. In your personal lives, it is, of course, your prerogative to make choices that best align with your personal beliefs. However, this book focuses on choices, behaviors, and actions taken within the school environment while in the role of an educator.
Some question whether the idea of gay students is new. It can seem as if people are constantly inventing new words to identify their sexuality and gender, making it easy to wonder if this is just some silly way that some adolescents are attempting to make themselves seem more exciting and unique. It stands to reason then that these attempts should not lead to any alterations within the school situation. Some believe that even acknowledging any of these terms only feeds an adolescent’s desire to create new terms and new words to stand out more and more from their peers. Others question why there seem to be so many transgender people all of a sudden. Many talk about how no one identified as such in past decades or in previous generations. In both situations, the answer is twofold. There were not many opportunities for people to live as openly as they do now, when it is becoming safer in many states and many countries to publicly identify as something other than a society’s typical expected identity options.
In addition, technology has also played a part. In past generations, one person may have felt a certain way and thought they were the only one in the whole world with those thoughts and feelings. Now, because of social media, there are additional opportunities for people to publish and self-publish their experiences, and because people are more easily able to connect to those they identify with, that one person no longer feels they are the only one in the world. Instead, they can hop on a computer or use a browser on their smartphone to connect with others in other communities across the globe who are just like them. Often, this experience allows for a significant amount of validation for the individual who previously thought they were all alone and that the lack of peers sharing this experience meant that their feelings must be wrong and this indicated that something must be wrong with them. This resulted in many around the world feeling lonely, lost, broken, and unworthy. It is easy to see how a person with this belief could experience depression and why so many attempted or committed suicide.
As the saying goes, there’s safety in numbers. This is true with sexual and gender minorities as well. Now, support groups and friendship groups exist on social media, which bring people together from all over the world who would never have otherwise met but among whom shared feelings and identities exist. Simultaneously, video-sharing platforms allow individuals to document their life experiences and personal journeys, which can bring comfort in better understanding to viewers, regardless of whether they feel validated within their own communities, schools, and families.
This book is not about whether there are gay people, whether transgender people are a “real thing,” or whether there should or should not be dozens of terms people use to self-identify their place in the world. The reality is that there are gay people, there are transgender people, and there are people who self-identify using terms that may be unfamiliar to others. This then leads us to consider whether adults should acknowledge these differences, especially if the adult may believe a student is using a word or term solely for attention. Some may even question how anyone should be expected or required to acknowledge these proclaimed differences, as they may remember that not long ago mental health diagnostic manuals considered homosexuality and transgender identity to be mental illnesses. However, every major mental health organization has spoken out in support and acceptance of LGBT+ people for decades, using research and science to buttress their position that sexual orientation and gender identity are a healthy part of who a person is, not a mental health issue that requires fixing.
Now that we’ve established that LGBT+ people exist and that none of the science-based professional medical and mental health organizations identify these identities as mental illnesses, it is incumbent upon educators to recognize how school staff and administrators impact their students. Whatever your opinions, whatever your beliefs, it is likely universal that everyone who dedicates their career to the lives of children wants those children to be safe and successful. This is the basis of this book. By recognizing ways that LGBT+ students feel unsafe, unwanted, and unworthy of acceptance, educators have the opportunity to work to minimize those experiences, to maximize the situations as learning experiences, and to help society create children who have healthy self-esteem, an awareness and compassion for their peers, and a youthful excitement for the future that they only get to see and experience if they are guided safely through their education in their formative years.
Foreword contributed by PostSecret
Although many books offer a foreword with insights from one person about why the book’s topic matters, there was simply no way that any one person could speak on behalf of the estimated two million American LGBT+ youth, their families, and LGBT+ educators. Instead, the author chose to seek out voices that represent these experiences and their stories. What follows is a contribution from PostSecret, with each postcard representing countless individuals with identical or near-identical experiences and stories.
PostSecret is an ongoing community mail art project. In the 15 years since Frank Warren created PostSecret, he has received more than one million secrets, mailed to him from all over the globe. The PostSecret website is the most popular ad-free website in the world, having had more than 900 million views to date. Thousands of secrets have been on tour at museums throughout the world, including at America’s Smithsonian Museum.
This project has become such a phenomenon largely because of how one person’s secret has been found to be the secret of many. As such, to see the secret of one is to have the opportunity to identify that this one secret speaks for countless others who hold that same secret or that same experience inside of their hearts.
The following secrets have been personally chosen and graciously contributed to this book by Frank Warren, as he continues to support the mental health, suicide prevention, and acceptance of all people through PostSecret, a goal this book shares with the entire PostSecret community of contributors.